About Mary
Mary Blair is a licensed professional counselor in South Dakota with 18 years of experience. She has worked as a psychotherapist, consultant, and hospice and hospital chaplain. Mary helps people who are facing grief, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, parenting challenges, and life transitions.
Her background includes long-term clinical work alongside roles in hospice and hospital settings. That experience shaped a practical, down-to-earth style that blends talk therapy with attention to bodily experience and personal history.
Background and approach
She draws on psychodynamic ideas, somatic methods, and Internal Family Systems in her work. Mary emphasizes a whole-person approach that considers mind, body, and spirit as each person defines them. Sessions are client-centered, and she encourages people to take the lead when that feels right.
She also uses tools to help people notice how emotions show up in the body and in relationships. In sessions she listens for patterns from past relationships and current stresses. Then she helps people try small changes that can ease daily life and improve connections with others.
She pays attention to grief, compassion fatigue, end-of-life concerns, and chronic or complex health issues. People who choose her often want practical ways to cope and to understand how their history affects present choices. She aims to make therapy a collaborative process focused on real change over time.
How Mary’s Approaches Work Online
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and follow-the-client pacing. The therapist creates space for clients to name their concerns and choose what to work on, which helps when dealing with relationship struggles, grief, or life transitions.Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention skills and grounding practices. These techniques help with anxiety, stress, and emotional overwhelm by training moments of calm and clearer awareness of thoughts and feelings.
Psychodynamic work looks at patterns from earlier relationships that show up now. It can help people understand why they react a certain way and try different choices in close relationships and at work.
Choosing the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels helpful. Together they adjust methods as progress is made and needs change.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video sessions are close to an in-person conversation, phone sessions work when bandwidth is limited, live chat and text messaging allow shorter check-ins and ongoing support between appointments. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy days and varied schedules.
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What this counselor works with
Most often
- Relationship issues
- Grief
- Self esteem
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Co-morbidity
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 18 years
- Licensed
- South Dakota
- Languages
- English