About Malissa
Malissa Dieterle is a licensed clinician in Illinois with 26 years of experience. She focuses on practical help for stress, anxiety, addictions, relationships, and self-esteem. Her style is direct and compassionate, aimed at people who want clear steps and steady support.
She works with people who are struggling with life changes and motivation. That includes issues such as abandonment, codependency, commitment concerns, and communication problems. Malissa also helps with impulse control, mood shifts, and isolation or loneliness.
Background and approach
Her approach is individualized. Sessions center on honest conversation and realistic goals. Malissa tailors plans to each person’s needs instead of using a one-size-fits-all method.
Clients may bring concerns about divorce or separation, forgiveness, or dealing with narcissistic dynamics. She also supports those working through substance use challenges and smoking or vaping cessation. Seasonal Affective Disorder and self-love work are part of her range.
People who choose her can expect steady guidance and straightforward tools to manage day-to-day problems. She emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and compassion while helping clients build coping skills. Taking the first step is often the hardest part, and she encourages people who are ready to begin.
Approaches that guide online sessions
Malissa uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques tailored to each person. One common approach focuses on learning coping skills for stress and anxiety through short, practical exercises and behavior changes that can be practiced between sessions. This helps people reduce immediate symptoms and build routines that feel manageable.Another frequent approach addresses addictive behaviors and impulse control with goal-setting, relapse prevention planning, and strategies to replace risky actions with healthier habits. That work often includes steps for smoking or vaping cessation and managing urges in everyday situations.
Finding the right method is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, preferences, and what has or has not helped in the past. Together they decide which techniques to try and adjust the plan as progress is made.
Online formats offer flexibility for people with busy schedules. Video calls allow fuller face-to-face conversation, phone sessions can fit into a short break, live chat is useful for quick check-ins, and text messaging supports ongoing reflection between meetings. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent even when life is busy.
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What this counselor works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Forgiveness
- Impulsivity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Workplace issues
- Experience
- 26 years
- Licensed
- Illinois
- Languages
- English